A story is going viral online about a Nigerian man who is heartbroken after his fiancée dumps him for being too polite to her.
Taking to his verified page on X, formerly known as Twitter, the man known as Ayo published a Whatsapp message he received this morning in which his partner revealed that their relationship is over.
According to the lady in the note she left for her lover before he awoke, she couldn’t continue the relationship primarily because he was so nice, while also mentioning that he rarely expresses feelings.
She went on to say that her partner doesn’t display rage or annoyance, which she thinks is cute, but he’s not the type of man she wants for herself.
The lady added that she had moved on and that the boyfriend should do the same when he wakes up to see the message. She closed the message by informing him that she had blocked him.
“Hello Ayo, Shw,” Shw wrote. I’m sure you’re still asleep, and I hope my message doesn’t come as a surprise to you.
I know you don’t like it when I write epistles, but I can’t help myself since I’ve been thinking about it. I know it’ll be difficult for me to say and difficult for you to accept, but I don’t think I can go on like this.
I mean, I CANNOT KEEP THIS RELATIONSHIP GOING.
Don’t get me wrong: you’re a great guy. In fact, I believe you’re too nice. That’s one of the reasons why this won’t work.
When I anticipate you to be angry at me, you don’t show it; you don’t display wrath or annoyance. It’s a cute thing, but that’s not the type of man I want for myself.
I’m confident you’ll understand. I’m a woman who is considering marriage, and this is not what I want for myself.
I apologize if this will destroy your morning when you see it tomorrow. But move on, since I’ve already moved on. I hope you find someone who will accept you exactly as you are; unfortunately, that person is not me.
I’d block you for my sanity and mental health since I know you’ll beg me, and I don’t want to be emotionally guilt tripped into changing my opinion. I recommend that you do the same. Take care, and thank you for loving me in such a way that I will always remember.”
Ayo, who was not anticipating the “breakfast,” responded when he awoke in the morning to find the message;
